Your First Mediation
What to expect, step by step
Whether you're considering mediation or a court has asked you to attend, here's how it works — in plain language.
What mediation is — and isn't
It is
- Voluntary — you choose to be here
- Confidential
- Your decisions — you keep control
- Guided by a neutral mediator
It isn't
- Court — no judge, no ruling
- Therapy or counseling
- Legal advice
- Someone deciding for you
What to expect
- 1
Reach out
Call the Babb Center and ask for Julie, or email her. She will call you back.
- 2
Private intake call
Julie speaks with each party separately and confidentially, including a safety screening. Fees are discussed privately during your intake call.
- 3
Preparing for your session
Julie helps you know what to gather and what to expect, so you arrive ready.
- 4
The session
In person or virtual, together or in separate rooms — with breaks welcome whenever you need one.
- 5
Afterward
You receive a written summary of any agreements. Review it with your attorney before signing anything.
How to prepare
- Know your priorities — what matters most to you
- Gather relevant documents, such as financial statements or your current parenting schedule
- Think about what matters most for your children
- Write down your questions
- Talk with your attorney, if you have one
Meeting online
- Find a quiet, private space where you won't be overheard
- Use a charged device with a working camera and microphone
- Never join a session while driving
Bringing your attorney
You may bring your attorney to mediation, or consult them between sessions. Many people find it helpful to review options with their own lawyer before making decisions.
Taking care of yourself
Mediation can be emotional. That's normal. The Babb Center's counselors offer separate support for individuals, couples, and children — kept entirely apart from your mediation. Learn more at babbcenter.org.
Ready to take the first step?
Call the Babb Center and ask to be referred to Julie Witt for mediation. Julie will call you back.
Please don't include details about your case, your children, or any safety concerns in an email. Julie will discuss everything with you privately.